FAQ
Here you’ll find answers to most questions you may have for me. Please be sure to read through all of them before reaching out! Contact inquiries with questions that are already answered here will be directed back to this page.
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My availability is generally limited to Tuesdays and every other weekend. However, I could occasionally be tempted to meet any other day of the week with enough notice for very persuasive date proposals.
I maintain a full schedule and am often booked out 2+ weeks so I really appreciate advanced planning. You may be able to catch me on a rare same-day (albeit few and far in between), but nothing gets me hotter than a preplanned date to look forward to.
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I’m based in Baltimore, MD but can travel easily between there and Alexandria, VA and any other areas in between. A minimum booking time or additional travel charge may apply for locations outside of Baltimore City.
You can see what cities I'll be in soon on my Tryst and at the top of this site. If you’d like to see me outside of Baltimore then ask me about extended travel and TMTY/FMTY.
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Historically I haven’t accepted reviews in the past because they often minimize dates to a list of tasks to get checked off, when I prefer those dates to be a chance to grow a real connection over time.
If you feel so inclined you’re absolutely welcome to share your thoughts (and praise) privately via email or text. I love hearing about your experiences and I encourage feedback at any time.
I do have a handful of testimonials you can look over on this page that have come directly from past and present lovers. Let them be a guide as to what you can expect from a date with me.
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Deposits: For local bookings the deposit amount is 20% of the entire date due at time of booking. It can be used for one reschedule within 30 days of initial booking date.
For TMTY/FMTY bookings, the deposit is 50%.
Deposits can be paid via an online payment app such as Cashapp or Venmo, gift card, or cash sent through priority mail.
**Deposits are nonrefundable unless there is a (very rare) complication on my end, in which case it will be fully refunded back to you.
Cancellations: Bookings can be cancelled up to 24 hours without losing your deposit. While it’s not refundable, I will honor it for a new booking within 30 days.
If cancelling within 72 hours, 50% due.
If cancelling within 24 hours, 100% due.No call-no shows will not be refunded or booked again in the future.
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Deposits can be done through CashApp, Venmo, ApplePay, bitcoin, gift card, and cash (via priority mail). The remainder of the payment is due at the beginning of the date in cash.
If we are meeting in public then the remainder can be placed in an envelope, card, or book of your choosing from my Marigold gift list. Good presentation goes a long way (hint hint).
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Both! Incalls are hosted in 3+star hotels upon request. I’m also more than happy to come to you if you prefer to host.
Travel and incall may incur a small additional charge based on distance and availability.
Friends choosing 1 hour dates will be asked to cover a $150 incall fee.
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Screening begins at initial correspondence - how you present yourself and the information you give determines if you'll be someone I want to see. Please take some time to thoroughly read the requirements and make sure everything you send is correct.
I take privacy and discretion very seriously. I use an encrypted email service, and all of the information sent is promptly and permanently deleted shortly after screening.
I ask that you provide:
Legal first and last name
A valid phone number (not a text-based app number)
and at least one of the following:
A picture of a redacted photo ID (everything except your name, DOB, and photo censored out)
Two references from providers from within the past six months
Your verified LinkedIn with 200+ connections
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What happens during a booking is completely up to all people involved. There is no absolute guarantee of any specific activity unless it’s communicated during the booking.
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Yes! My friends are listed on my experiences page. If you’re interested in seeing me with any of them then be sure to mention that in your initial inquiry.
Interested in seeing me with someone else? Send me their contact info in your inquiry and I’ll see what I can do!
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Please arrive on time and freshly and thoroughly showered! I’m a stickler on hygiene - I spend a great deal of time and energy on mine and expect my lovers to as well. If you book an incall then you’ll be able to shower there beforehand if you’d like.
As far as what you need to bring, the only thing required is the remaining donation. Other friends have also brought gifts such as flowers, chocolates, wine/fun drinks, snacks, and gift cards. For more gift ideas you can take a peek here.
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Yes, I accept clients of all abilities and experiences. If this is your first time hiring a provider then let me know in your intro message. Feel free to tell me why you’re thinking about hiring me, what kind of experience you’re looking for, if you’d like me to lead, or anything else you feel is important for your first time. I’ll do my best to ensure that you’re 100% comfortable with me.
If you have some free time then go over this etiquette guide written by Jenna Love on how to be a great client. If you follow that then you’re sure to be one of the favorites.
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I do not create custom content and I do not offer FaceTime shows.
However if you’d like a souvenir from our time together then you can inquire about recording for an additional $250. Available to select suitors at my discretion.
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Generally yes. You may choose from any items you see in my photos, ask if I have something you’d be interested in, or you can purchase something specifically for our date from my wishlists.